Clearly the two are very friendly as indicated by physical closeness and smiles. (A smile indicates, "I won't hurt you.") Her hair is well back, displaying her soft neck skin and ears, plus some frontal area. This is "guy bait" and he is liking it! He is probably thinking about how gooooood she is going to feel, smell, and taste! Nibbling on those cute ears will be the perfect dessert!
Her thoughts are probably on how much he desires her. In her "old brain" and DNA is the strong programing to seek a mate who considers her valuable. This will help insure she will be protected by him and have a better chance for survival of her and the offspring - at least that is the way it worked for millions of ancestors. She is going to be watching his body language and actions for how much he is willing to care for her well being. She wants first a caring and protective relationship before she lets a guy have her for dessert.
Notice how he is leaning toward her and his left arm is under the table. He has desires for her body and wants to get physically and emotionally closer to her as soon as possible. His left hand and arm are under the table "hiding his intentions".
She is no dummy! Look at her right arm pushing him away. Also she is sitting up straight and not leaning toward him, all very proper. Additionally, she has her left arm across and close to her body in a very protective position.
She is smiling at him and being socially correct but her body language says, "Hey buddy, slow down and keep your distance. I'm not letting you get to me right now." She needs to find out more about how valuable she is to this guy and how caring and protective he will be for her and the offspring. Much of her information about him will come from his body language which she will pickup mostly unconsciously. (By now she probably knows this guy is anxious to jump on her bones as soon as she opens up and lets him in!)
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