You may be unaware that you have speech habits that not only fail to inspire confidence and admiration in your listeners, but leave a bad impression. People form strong opinions about others based on how their voice sounds and on their speech patterns.
For example, a high squeaky voice can indicate anxiety and does not inspire confidence. A low voice indicates low stress and confidence. Something you should always watch for is how people react when you are speaking to them. Are they intent on what you say or do their eyes get "glassy" and do they yawn?
A deep voice is indicative of high testosterone. The male voice is normally 130 to 145 Hz (cycles/second). Female voices are 230 to 255 Hz. Try to relax and let your voice be naturally deep, so your testosterone is evident. Her DNA programming will unconsciously make her more attracted to you with your deep voice! Talking to her all evening in a deep voice is a real "turn-on."
© Copyright 2005, revised 2009, 2015 by Lawrence Rodrigues, M.S., Director: EastWest Institute for Self-Understanding.
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