Body Language Section 5

Alpha Male Body Language
Helps Men Flirt

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A Quote to Make You Smile:

"Love is an electric blanket with somebody else in control of the switch."
-- Cathy Carlyle

There is much more to being the Alpha Male than muscle.
Even in the animal world the Alpha Male is more than being the strongest. He is also the smartest, cleverest, and most alert to detect danger for himself and the females.
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The Alpha Male also leads and defends all the others in his group. He is the protector and provider that the entire group depends on. 


Learn How to Flirt as an Alpha Male

When the term Alpha Male is applied to a man, it refers to a type of man who is strong, smart and a leader. Other males naturally respect his decisions and don't challenge him. An Alpha Male looks and behaves in ways that make it evident that he is the leader and not to be challenged. He moves and stands in ways that show he expects to get what he wants without being questioned. The Alpha Male looks in all ways a little better than the rest of the males. He stands out as cleaner, neater, stronger, healthier, smarter and more aggressive than the other males.Background Discover More . . .

Alpha male guy.A man's Alpha Male body language says it all. He is strong but strong doesn't mean a lot of muscles. It means a male who gets around in the world by himself and gets what he wants through confidence, courage, intellect and high determination. He moves slowly and deliberately with no wasted motions. He stands proudly erect, relaxed -- but alert -- in all situations.

An Alpha Male is generous, outgoing and cheerful with everyone, for he has no worries. The Alpha Male has confidence that he will get everything he wants and can overcome any resistance or opposition. Petty problems and inconveniences are ignored and accepted without outbursts of anger or emotion because he is emotionally stable and strong. Research Learn More . . .

An Alpha Male establishes his territory and holds it as long as he wants it. His relaxed and confident body language says he is comfortable there and plans to hold his territory, even if he has to fight for it. He does this for three reasons:

  1. To scare off other males who might be competition.

  2. To show the females that he is strong and is an Alpha Male.

  3. To show the women that since he is an Alpha Male, he is their best choice for sex.

Instinctually for survival reasons, females seek an Alpha Male who can protect them and who will help them raise strong healthy offspring.

Alpha Male Body Language and Behavior

Alpha Males display the following behavior patterns:

  1. Good Body Posture
    They stand or sit erect with chest out, head up, gut sucked in and body relaxed. These postures are signs of dominance. Also, moving deliberately -- only when necessary -- indicates great self-confidence, control, pride, and determination.

  2. Courage
    The Alpha Male is ready and willing to confidently tackle every problem and see it resolved without complaints, emotional disturbance, or drama. He is a cool guy who doesn't get rattled over the slightest disturbing things. Alpha Males don't whine and complain about life's challenges. They tackle life's problems and solve them without complaining.

  3. Persistence
    They keep focused on goals and apply all resources until goals are achieved. Alpha Males don't give up easily.

  4. Assertiveness
    They communicate clearly and confidently about what is expected from others and what is provided in exchange. Alpha Males are ready to defend their desires and opinions. They ask for what they want clearly and directly.

  5. Aggression
    This does not mean be argumentative, belligerent and ready to fight! It means be dynamic and do what needs to be done in a mature, well-socialized way. Alpha Males don't wait for others to start the action.

  6. Strong, Clean and in Good Health
    Good health and survival of babies requires both parents be healthy. A man's health is something that can turn a woman on - or off - without her thinking about it. Women unconsciously use their eyes and nose to evaluate a lot about a man's health and chances of making good healthy babies. Alpha Males are smart and take good care of their health.

Guys, if you aren't naturally the top Alpha Male in the room, don't give up. Now you have some new valuable information that you can apply. Study these things above that you can do to gain a few more points with the women. Make some changes and you may see a greatly improved success rate with women.

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